I was
contemptuous of the game. As a matter of fact, it barely seemed sporty enough
to be called one. What a royal waste of hours, I would tell myself, chasing a
tiny ball with a stick, yards on end! Golf
is made for the fuddy duddy fogies, I had concluded. And that hoity toity air
about the golfing community, it helped dismiss the game even more.
Then one
day, somewhere out of a deep seated fear of missing out on what so many seemed
to rave about, came a voice. I heard myself announcing at the dinner table, “I am
going to learn golf.”
I remember
wheeling the trolley in on the first day quite a bit tentatively. Had I left it
too late? Would my muscles rise to the event? Would I ever get on to the 'course' as they called it? What exactly does one do over eighteen holes?
Unknown to
the self, I had made two sound decisions already. My golf set was smart and the
coach outstanding. A few months short of 89 years, with the barest of stoop and
a lifetime spent at the game, Sri Mange Lal was more institutional than the Club he
worked at. What’s more, he had coached Raj Kumar, yesteryear's Bollywood star
who I had a crush on in the movie ‘Hindustan Ki Kasam’. My association with Sri
Mange Lal had all the makings!
Apart from a
reasonably proportionate frame, thank you Dad and Mom, and an average health, I
had no special aptitude for Golf. I cast about in my head to add to the pluses. I ticked them off. I was on the right side of fifty, yes. I
could drive, and how. And the golf course was close by, hallelujah!
“The balls
are very expensive, alright and there is an attire regulation of some sort,”
home advice had been succinct. I remember biting my lip, squaring my shoulders and exhaling calm over the dull dread that a new personal challenge ignites in our hearts
and minds. Would I be able to make the kind of time Golf demanded? How in the
heavens do these people manage to get from one hole to another? Hell, I will
use the side gate, all those people busily striding along feel a bit
intimidating.
On my first
day in the practice bay, I swung wildly, alternating between hockey and broom
sweeping moves. The munchkin ahead of me in the practice bay hit magnificently
and cleanly. His shoulders described a confident arc as the club moved smoothly
over the left on the finish, the ball sailing to the white flag. “Madam, have
you been riding horses?” my coach asked me abruptly. Before I could close my
mouth, he concluded from my face, “Ah yes, I can tell!”
The first
day I got home after hitting some fifty balls, my arms blazed at the joints. The
right one felt as though it would pop out of the socket. I just lay flopped
over the pillows, staring at the flickering images on the TV, every single
muscle in the body hurting. The grip, the stance, the back swing, the hip
movement, it had all seemed so unbelievably easy but what was this, the ball had
a mind of its own. The marker flags taunted me, there was no way in the world I
would ever get close to kissing those pieces of cloth, it seemed.
There is a
predictable evolution every new activity follows. There is the initial
excitement, the honeymoon period so to say when it looks enchanting and
deceptively glamorous from afar. As you get closer, the hard work and
consistency involved becomes visible and the body begins to mold in the process
of aligning itself to the new demands.
There may also come a time when the spirit becomes weak, “I am never
going to get a hang of this!”
But the
trick is to persevere. I did. Three coaches later and an above average time
spent in the practice bay, I have finally fallen into the rhythm of playing
nine holes a day. The bogey is happening, the par will proliferate.
And friends continue to cheer from the wings along the way, just as a special one inspired with his enthusiasm and ready golfing cues when I first put my intent out there.
And friends continue to cheer from the wings along the way, just as a special one inspired with his enthusiasm and ready golfing cues when I first put my intent out there.
