It is an emotion to run from, that guilt mixed anger; it comes
welling up at the parent’s mention of worry. “Oh baby, where are you? The
weather is packing up. Hope you are warm and cozy at home! Please don’t be
wandering around at this unholy hour. Did you remember to charge your phone
before leaving for the airport? Have you got a copy of your ticket? Where have you been, your phone was switched
off, I was dying here with worry!” The media fed fear in the air had made
dithering blubbers of Gurjeet and Ajrawar. They were driving their young
daughter up the wall with their ever present and bilious concern. “I am alive
here Mum, can’t you see? And I am keeping you informed, what is the panic
about? Why is everyone forever rehearsing tragedy?” she was furiously impatient with their stalking and tracking on occasions.
Having raised their darling girl in the so called “Rape
Capital” of India, the couple was on edge as a matter of course. Any call from
an unfamiliar number on their mobiles was enough to set them off like a pack of
firecrackers, “Has something happened? Is this a bystander calling them with
some devastating news?” Primed for emergency responses and dreading the worst,
their busy adrenaline had given them permanent goose bumps they were forever
rubbing their hands down, over and over.
The family had survived many a battle royal on tense nights
when Pia would be out flouting her curfew hour. It would begin with, “I am
starting back in fifteen minutes,” and eventually dissolve into a countdown ending
with, “I am crashing here for the night. Don’t wait up for me.” If only she had seen how the air went out of
her parent’s rigid frames before they collapsed with fatigue into their cold
beds. It was harrowing for them to stare at the front door for hours on end
only to pretend nonchalance at her footsteps outside.
Perhaps it was only to stem the overzealous parental concern
but Pia had gamely tucked a Pepper Spray can into her bag and dutifully carried
a nunchuk below her driving seat in the car. “Never look into the eyes of other
drivers on the road. Keep your windows rolled up at traffic junctions during
the wee hours. Keep our numbers on speed dial. Text while setting out, will
you? Avoid deserted roads and highways. Ask a male colleague to tag along after
unusually long hours,” Pia had pretty much heard it all. “Mum, you think a
guy’s mother is any less worried about her son!”
This parent child tug of war assumed new heights when Pia
took
off for the Big Apple to pursue her undergraduate studies. Her parents now
exported their imagination to the digital maze. There was the social media, the
digital banking and Whatsapp for remote assurance as to her wellbeing. But of
course they did their weekly FaceTime, the disparate time zones notwithstanding.
Imagine the rock in these happy waters one day when Ajrawar got an SMS alert on
his Android phone. Pia had apparently swiped her TCDC card at a chemist’s for 4
USD. Chemist?! Oh good dear God!! He
called up Gurjeet at work, “Could it be her eye that is bothering her? She had
mentioned her wisdom tooth beginning to throb a bit! With the harsh winters
coming on, one never knew with the central heating, her landlord was not
accessible enough at times.”
Not one to wait for the other part of the world to wake up,
Gurjeet typed out a message, “Pia darling, is all well?” Back came the cryptic
response, “Why do you ask Mum?”
“Well, Papa got a bank alert for 4 $, shall I ask the Aunts
to contact you for any medical follow up? Papa knows the Defence Attaché posted
there?”
“What are you rambling about Mum?” there was the faintest
growl.
“You swiped the card at the Chemist’s, right?” Gurjeet
raised it a notch.
A nano pause and then a delighted cackle ballooned at
Gurjeet from across the international ether, “Mum! Your default setting needs
rebooting. It was at Medici, the café round the corner! I had a croissant on
your dime parents. The week’s dose!”
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